A neutral third party can help bridge the communication gap.

"Thank you for sharing this — your honesty and courage in updating us on your son's behavior are powerful and deeply moving. The way you describe both the struggles and the small victories feels real and compassionate; it reminds readers that progress is rarely linear but always meaningful. Your practical steps and boundaries are wise, and your emphasis on self-care is a crucial reminder for any caregiver. Sending you strength and patience as you keep advocating for him — your dedication makes a difference, even on the hardest days."

One day, Jodi reached her breaking point. She realized that she couldn't fix her son's problems on her own and that she needed help. With the support of her family and a therapist, Jodi began to focus on her own well-being and self-care. She started to educate herself about mental health, attending workshops and support groups to better understand her son's struggles.

: A new adaptation based on the book series by Jodi Thomas called Ransom Canyon is premiering on Netflix in April 2025.

Your son is out of control. That is the current reality. But the update is this: you can survive this without becoming a monster yourself. Put on your own oxygen mask. Secure the environment. And remember that "out of control" is a behavior, not a future.