During their relationship, she relocated to New Zealand to live with him, a significant departure from her US-based career at the time.

Lei's approach to these complex relationships is rooted in her desire to challenge societal norms and promote understanding. "I believe that love is love, no matter what form it takes," she said. "I want my performances to reflect the diversity of human experience and to encourage empathy and acceptance."

Outside of her work with Tushy, Kaylani Lei has built a career around several recurring romantic and relationship-based themes across various studios: